Hi, Welcome
Hi, Welcome
Hi, Welcome
This is my story. The one that explains why I do this work and why I believe in it so deeply.
This is my story. The one that explains why I do this work - and why I believe in it so deeply.
This is my story. The one that explains why I do this work and why I believe in it so deeply.
This is my story. The one that explains why I do this work and why I believe in it so deeply.
The Questions That Shaped Me
The Questions That Shaped Me
For a long time, I believed there must be something wrong with me.
A few years ago, I hit one of the lowest points in my life. My mental health was slipping, my relationships were strained, and I felt completely lost.
From the outside though, it didn’t look that way. The house, the car, the holidays - everything suggested I was doing great.
And I kept asking myself the same question: If I had everything I thought I wanted, why did I still feel so empty?
It took me a while to see it clearly. Money and success can create comfort, but they don’t guarantee fulfillment. In fact, the real journey often begins only after you’ve achieved those things.
I couldn’t settle in school.
I couldn’t settle in school.
I couldn’t settle in school.
I couldn’t settle into any job — even when it paid well.
I couldn’t settle into any job — even when it paid well.
I couldn’t settle into any job — even when it paid well.
I struggled with my thoughts, emotions, and impulses.
I struggled with my thoughts, emotions, and impulses.
I struggled with my thoughts, emotions, and impulses.
I couldn’t enjoy dinners, holidays, shopping — the simple joys of life.
I couldn’t enjoy dinners, holidays, shopping — the simple joys of life.
I couldn’t enjoy dinners, holidays, shopping — the simple joys of life.
I couldn’t feel normal like everyone else did.
I couldn’t feel normal like everyone else did.
I couldn’t feel normal like everyone else did.
I carried on anyway — learning, working, trying to improve myself. But underneath, the questions remained:
A few years ago, I hit one of the lowest points in my life. My mental health was slipping, my relationships were strained, and I felt completely lost.
From the outside though, it didn’t look that way. The house, the car, the holidays - everything suggested I was doing great.
And I kept asking myself the same question: If I had everything I thought I wanted, why did I still feel so empty?
It took me a while to see it clearly. Money and success can create comfort, but they don’t guarantee fulfillment. In fact, the real journey often begins only after you’ve achieved those things.
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
What am I actually trying to live for?
What am I actually trying to live for?
What am I actually trying to live for?
Who am I meant to become?
Who am I meant to become?
Who am I meant to become?
I looked for answers everywhere — philosophy, psychology, spirituality, self-help. Some of it helped. None of it fully explained what I was experiencing.
Over time, through reflection and self-enquiry, I realised I wasn’t dealing with abstract ideas — but lived questions around identity, meaning, and direction. And what I was living through wasn’t a phase or a problem to solve.
It was how I am wired — to think, to question what others move past, and to sit with uncertainty longer than most people are comfortable with.
Once I accepted that, my relationship with thinking changed. And slowly, things began to make sense.
I looked for answers everywhere — philosophy, psychology, spirituality, self-help. Some of it helped. None of it fully explained what I was experiencing.
Over time, through reflection and self-enquiry, I realised I wasn’t dealing with abstract ideas — but lived questions around identity, meaning, and direction. And what I was living through wasn’t a phase or a problem to solve.
It was how I am wired — to think, to question what others move past, and to sit with uncertainty longer than most people are comfortable with.
Once I accepted that, my relationship with thinking changed. And slowly, things began to make sense.
For a long time, I believed there must be something wrong with me.
I couldn’t settle in school.
I couldn’t settle in school.
I couldn’t settle into any job — even when it paid well.
I couldn’t settle into any job — even when it paid well.
I struggled with my thoughts, emotions, and impulses.
I struggled with my thoughts, emotions, and impulses.
I couldn’t enjoy dinners, holidays, shopping — the simple joys of life.
I couldn’t enjoy dinners, holidays, shopping — the simple joys of life.
I couldn’t feel normal like everyone else did.
I couldn’t feel normal like everyone else did.
I carried on anyway — learning, working, trying to improve myself. But underneath, the questions remained:
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
Who am I meant to become?
Who am I meant to become?
What am I here for?
What does a fulfilled life really look like?
I looked for answers everywhere — philosophy, psychology, spirituality, self-help. Some of it helped. None of it fully explained what I was experiencing.
Over time, through reflection and self-enquiry, I realised I wasn’t dealing with abstract ideas — but lived questions around identity, meaning, and direction. And what I was living through wasn’t a phase or a problem to solve.
It was how I am wired — to think, to question what others move past, and to sit with uncertainty longer than most people are comfortable with.
Once I accepted that, my relationship with thinking changed. And slowly, things began to make sense.
Who am I beyond roles and expectations?
What am I actually trying to live for?
Who am I meant to become?
Who am I meant to become?
How This Became My Work
How This Became My Work
Once I stopped trying to outgrow my questions and instead committed to them, thinking became less of a struggle and more of a way of being.
I immersed myself in self-inquiry — observing how my mind worked, how meaning formed, and how clarity appeared and disappeared.
At first, I started sharing my observations with people around me. Gradually, those interactions deepened into one-on-one work and expanded into writing, coaching, and speaking.
Once I stopped trying to outgrow my questions and instead committed to them, thinking became less of a struggle and more of a way of being.
I immersed myself in self-inquiry — observing how my mind worked, how meaning formed, and how clarity appeared and disappeared.
At first, I started sharing my observations with people around me. Gradually, those interactions deepened into one-on-one work and expanded into writing, coaching, and speaking.
Today, this is how I spend my time — thinking about the human condition, writing to explore my observations, working one-on-one with individuals, and facilitating conversations where honest reflection is possible.
Not to offer answers, but to help people see more clearly what they’re already living through.
Today, this is how I spend my time — thinking about the human condition, writing to explore my observations, working one-on-one with individuals, and facilitating conversations where honest reflection is possible.
Not to offer answers, but to help people see more clearly what they’re already living through.
My Story
My Story
1988
I was two years old, the middle child between an elder sister and a younger brother.
1988
I was two years old, the middle child between an elder sister and a younger brother.
1992
Teen phase and a family trip.
1992
Teen phase and a family trip.
2007
Just me in a casual t-shirt, smiling at the camera - not knowing this would become a memory I’d look back on.
2007
Just me in a casual t-shirt, smiling at the camera - not knowing this would become a memory I’d look back on.
1988
I was two years old, the middle child between an elder sister and a younger brother.
1988
I was two years old, the middle child between an elder sister and a younger brother.
2001
Teen phase and a family trip.
2001
Teen phase and a family trip.
2009
I met Kanika in 2007 and we have been together ever since. This picture is from our college party.
2009
I met Kanika in 2007 and we have been together ever since. This picture is from our college party.
2010
A visit to the Golden temple with my dad and brother. These little rituals always brought us closer as a family.
2010
A visit to the Golden temple with my dad and brother. These little rituals always brought us closer as a family.
2011
A rare selfie with my mom. She’s always been my quiet anchor through every stage of life.
2011
A rare selfie with my mom. She’s always been my quiet anchor through every stage of life.
2012
Carefree days with Bob Marley on the wall, no thought of what’s next - just before life took a different turn.
2012
Carefree days with Bob Marley on the wall, no thought of what’s next - just before life took a different turn.
2013
Our wedding day. Kanika and I officially tied the knot.
2013
Our wedding day. Kanika and I officially tied the knot.
2017
The day Aaryav was born - the most incredible day of my life, and the one that changed everything for me.
2017
The day Aaryav was born - the most incredible day of my life, and the one that changed everything for me.
2019
These were some of the happiest days of my life. A time of personal transformation and the joy of watching him grow.
2019
These were some of the happiest days of my life. A time of personal transformation and the joy of watching him grow.
2023
Still going strong. I’ve aged, she’s only gotten younger and prettier. Through it all, we have grown together, stronger and more connected than ever.
2023
Still going strong. I’ve aged, she’s only gotten younger and prettier. Through it all, we have grown together, stronger and more connected than ever.
2024
No comments
2024
No comments
2007
Just me in a casual t-shirt, smiling at the camera - not knowing this would become a memory I’d look back on.
2007
Just me in a casual t-shirt, smiling at the camera - not knowing this would become a memory I’d look back on.
2009
I met Kanika in 2007 and we have been together ever since. This picture is from our college party.
2009
I met Kanika in 2007 and we have been together ever since. This picture is from our college party.
2010
A visit to the Golden temple with my dad and brother. These little rituals always brought us closer as a family.
2010
A visit to the Golden temple with my dad and brother. These little rituals always brought us closer as a family.
2011
A rare selfie with my mom. She’s always been my quiet anchor through every stage of life.
2011
A rare selfie with my mom. She’s always been my quiet anchor through every stage of life.
2012
Carefree days with Bob Marley on the wall, no thought of what’s next - just before life took a different turn.
2012
Carefree days with Bob Marley on the wall, no thought of what’s next - just before life took a different turn.
2013
Our wedding day. Kanika and I officially tied the knot.
2013
Our wedding day. Kanika and I officially tied the knot.
2017
The day Aaryav was born - the most incredible day of my life, and the one that changed everything for me.
2017
The day Aaryav was born - the most incredible day of my life, and the one that changed everything for me.
2019
These were some of the happiest days of my life. A time of personal transformation and the joy of watching him grow.
2019
These were some of the happiest days of my life. A time of personal transformation and the joy of watching him grow.
2023
Still going strong. I’ve aged, she’s only gotten younger and prettier. Through it all, we have grown together, stronger and more connected than ever.
2023
Still going strong. I’ve aged, she’s only gotten younger and prettier. Through it all, we have grown together, stronger and more connected than ever.
2024
No comments
2024
No comments
2024
We adopted Ruby. Now all I do is give her belly rubs.
2024
We adopted Ruby. Now all I do is give her belly rubs.
2025
Aaryav is 8 now. How time has flown by.
2025
Aaryav is 8 now. How time has flown by.
2024
We adopted Ruby. Now all I do is give her belly rubs.
2024
We adopted Ruby. Now all I do is give her belly rubs.
2025
Aaryav is 8 now. How time has flown by.
2025
Aaryav is 8 now. How time has flown by.
2025
A recent family potrait.
2025
A recent family potrait.
2025
A recent family potrait.
2025
A recent family potrait.
If This Way Of Thinking Feels Familiar
If This Way Of Thinking Feels Familiar
You can explore my writing through the weekly newsletter, understand my approach through the THINK framework, or learn more about working with me one-on-one.
You can explore my writing through the weekly newsletter, understand my approach through the THINK framework, or learn more about working with me one-on-one.